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This is the story of our friend Beau and we want you to be aware of her crazy situation!

Tomorrow Beau will have her 4-month checkup in the cancer hospital in Amsterdam, with her scans and all the other tests that need to be done every time again. This is a stressful moment because after this checkup nothing can be done anymore to influence the results which she will get on 4 December by her oncologist.
It has been very hard and for sure the four most difficult months for her since she was diagnosed in January 2016 with cancer stage IV.
She made it, because she did it her way and for many people, this is something they cannot comprehend, they cannot digest and they don't know what to do with it, including the doctors and oncologists.
Because somebody in her condition should be dead already or at least in a hospital on tubes and IVs until she dies.

But she refused to accept this and until last week she has been trying to explain and defend herself to all the people that declared her as a liar.
This took so much energy and made her so sad that she almost gave up her journey and didn't want to move on anymore.
She was just so tired and her body was hurting so much that for her the easiest way was close her eyes and never wake up again.

What nobody knows is that she is alone and has no family or close relatives or kids that have been with her during her journey. At least not in Holland where she is now because of the checkup.

Since day one when she was diagnosed, she made a decision it was her body that was ill and not herself.
And it had to be "herself" who had to take care of her body and try to cure it, or at least prolong the time here on earth for it.
There was only one solution to do this which was going back down to earth.
“Down to earth” means that you realize that you're mortal, that you realize that you have to give up everything in the world where you rely on, that means you have to choose for a diet that is based on raw vegetables, fruit and herbs and nothing else and that you have to try to connect with the earth again, which most of the people don't even know what this means.
That means you have to learn to love yourself unconditionally and trust your inner self.
She was so lucky, that's when she finally got all the chemotherapy in the hospital, her friends gave her the chance to recover on the island of Maui with her dear friends around her. Those Friends had no doubts about her diagnose and it was like coming home having her family around and people understood where she was going through.
Unfortunately, she had to go back every three months for a checkup and also because she could only stay 90 days in the US at a time.
Maui became her home, not only for her but also for her body, and there's no doubt about that because within six months after the first chemotherapy her hair grew back again and even her liver was shrinking and tumor markers were going down. She had the best organic food on earth, and she had the ocean to relax her body and let it float so she had less pain and could move her body and muscles again without having this horrible pain because the chemo she has now, was taking the liquid between her bones and slowly turned it into a body with arthritis.

Her oncologists wrote and told her in April and August this year, that she had to be aware, that she probably won't make it until 2020 without being in the hospital on chemotherapy again. This, with the difficult time she had here in Holland the last 3 months, the dental problems that were getting worse because of the chemo and her body that was hurting so much made it impossible for her to go back to Maui to recover.


Because of this, you could see that her body was going backward, she tried to stay strong, keep up the faith and blessed every day she opened her eyes in the morning.
She closed herself up in her apartment and hardly spoke with anybody for the last four weeks because she wanted to spare her energy and stay away from the disbelieve and negativity outside.

Now even so, three days to go, We talked with her and if she thought, she will get nervous and stressed out, but she said she is capable now to turn this off and believe because she did everything she could get her body in this condition despite all the circumstances.

And 4 December will tell if she was right, or she was not capable to do what was necessary to keep my body well.

The only thing she's right now concerned about is what comes after the 4th of December.

She's not concerned if the results are bad because then she will stop everything, no more diet no more supplements no more chemotherapy and I will disappear.
But what if the diagnosis is good?
Then she has to deal with the fact that financially she won't be able to keep on going with her diet and supplements.
It is cheaper to live when you're healthy than when you're ill and even more when you use organic food and holistic supplements and herbs.
She had helped several times last year to buy every time her supplements, but it did cost a lot of stress.
Now one of her best friends called her and told that he will take care of her flight to Maui as soon as she wants to leave Holland after the results will be there, she was in tears when she told us this yesterday.

Now what do you all think of this?

Because the hospital where she came in January, June and October 2015 telling that there was something wrong with her body send her every time away, telling her, they found nothing even though in the first place they said it wasn't looking good what they saw! They kept sending her away every time again that nothing was wrong, even in October 2015 after an MRI scan, when she was so convinced there was something terrible going on.
It was less than 2 months later that she was brought in horrible pain into the hospital and diagnosed with stage IV, breast cancer, with the metastasis in her skeletal, liver and lymph system through the blood system.

Impossible to believe, but it was true, her liver was almost dying and they gave her approximately 8 weeks to live, not knowing if this liver would survive the chemotherapy.

Now they found out after an investigation that the hospital made mistakes in January, June and October 2015 and that without the mistakes, her life would have been so different and probably when they would have done their work well, cancer would have been in her breast only and not yet metastasized.
Even though they admit that they made the mistakes, they refuse to pay for it; they told her lawyer last week they want to pay between 2 and $6000 but then She has to sign a paper, where she abandons the case, only this amount of money for destroying her life and even don't give her a chance to live the life now she was capable to love instead of dying in April 2016.

This is how things works in The Netherlands !! This is unbelievable! This is what we would cal INJUSTICE !! In capital letters !

How is it possible that in a world like this, somebody who is ill because of malpractice, has to die after she did everything to stay alive, even when they gave her eight weeks to live in January 2016 and now again until the end of 2020, because the hospital refuses to help her financially to make her life worth living for more years.
If she only could buy her supplements and organic food, she could live with no stress and maybe a couple of years as a bonus for all she did to prove the doctors that their diagnoses were not right. And to show the world that with a positive mind setting, determination and willpower you can heal your body or at least prolong the time.

We do hope that maybe someone will read this and know someone who can help how to handle this case or how to get this public, because cases like this need to get attention, because it's unacceptable that a hospital that almost cost a woman her life, don't want to pay for the mistakes they made, to give her at least enough to live the time she has left in peace and with no stress.

If you agree and want to help her or believe this is an injustice, and this needs attention, please share this or call friends to help to put the spotlights on the hospital for its trivializing behavior, which unfortunately in Holland is allowed but can not be accepted today anymore.

Please help her with donations, it's getting Christmas, let's be nice for each other, let's give Beau another chance too.
We all want her to stay for many many years around us.
Give her the chance to inspire others with her book she's writing. In the conditions she's now, she won't be able to. All donations from Gofundme go directly to Wicky-Beau Koelma.

Please let's help her, with letting justice win!

Bas and Yezika van Gent

Be continued after the 4th of December 2018.

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